希望沟壑 Hope Gap

剧本太过扎实，扎实到放佛窥探到了谁的生活，突生一种羞耻感。转念一想这不就生活本身，将你我都包裹其中。

一场离婚足够检测出谁是痛苦绝望而庄严得体的人，谁是人生无能的残废，谁又是唯唯诺诺的狗。

伴侣之间，如果一方感觉到“我做什么都是错的，无论如何改变都不如你的意”，那这段关系迟早都要破裂吧。永远觉得自己是对的那一方，也深感委屈，明明我是那么在乎你，你却总是逃避与我交流，所以我才要愈发逼迫你改变。但这种逼迫，是会让人窒息的。因为那是单方面的、高高在上的，而不是真正聆听。所以婚姻破裂，强势的一方受到的伤害会非常大，过去自我构建的堡垒坍塌了，接受现实就意味着要否定过去的自己，这点尤为残酷。

▤「Whatever you're going through, someone's been through it before you, put it into words.」「We each have to carry our own burden.You're like the explorer. You're further down the road. You've gone on ahead. So if after a while you don't go on anymore, then I'll know that the road is too hard and for too long. I'll know that in the end, the unhappiness wins. But if you do go on and bear it, terrible as it is, then I'll know that however bad it gets, I can last it out because you did before me.」「Sudden Light By Dante Gabriel Rossetti」「Hold my hands and walk the old walk one last time then let me go.」

婚外恋，他俩不会有好下场。男的不爱可以，你早说啊，找到下家忽然提分手，渣男。还有那个小三，老公死了一年吧？也没多久吧？一下就跟别人是真爱了？这个老头也是个傻货，你老婆可没死。